Being a social host means you are legally responsible if underage drinking happens on your property—whether you provided the alcohol or not. If youth drink alcohol in your home, garage, backyard, or even at a property you own (like a lake cabin), you could face serious legal and financial consequences.
Why Does it Matter?
Many parents think it’s safer if teens drink “under supervision” or “at home where they can’t drive.” But research shows this is a myth. Allowing underage drinking not only puts young people at risk of accidents, injury, or alcohol poisoning—it also normalizes unhealthy behaviors that can lead to bigger problems down the road.
What the Law Says
In North Dakota (and many other states), Social Host Laws hold adults accountable when they knowingly allow underage drinking on their property. Penalties may include:
- Fines or citations
- Possible jail time
- Civil liability if someone is harmed
Even if you didn’t buy the alcohol, turning a blind eye to youth drinking in your home can still make you responsible.
What Parents Can Do
- Set clear boundaries – Let your child know your home is alcohol-free for anyone under 21.
- Talk openly – Share your expectations and the reasons why you don’t allow underage drinking.
- Take the pledge – Join other parents in saying “Not in My House” when it comes to underage drinking.