Today your kids have more influencers than ever, and you’re one of them. You don’t even need the production skills of a livestreamer. All you need is to look, listen and love.
Look
Parenting isn’t always easy—especially today—but one of the most powerful things you can do is simply be present. When you pay attention to your child’s behavior, notice their needs, and encourage them in all seasons of life, you strengthen trust.
- Share meals together, even if it’s just breakfast or a quick snack.
- Show interest in their hobbies and dreams.
- Watch for changes in their mood or behavior that may signal they need extra support.
The more you look for opportunities to be involved early, the more natural it becomes as your child grows.
Listen
Building a healthy home starts with open and ongoing conversations. These don’t always have to be serious—they can be about the little things too. What matters most is that your child knows you care and that you’re available.
- Ask about their day and listen without interrupting.
- Pay attention not just to what they say, but how they say it.
- Keep conversations consistent, whether in the car, during chores, or before bedtime.
When children feel heard, they’re more likely to come to you when the big things arise.
Love
Every child needs to know—through words and actions—that they are loved and valued. Love creates a foundation for physical, mental, and emotional health.
- Celebrate small wins, like helping around the house or showing kindness to others.
- Offer praise and encouragement that is specific and genuine.
- Use daily actions—like hugs, smiles, or simply spending time together—to show your love.
Children may not always remember every word you say, but they’ll never forget how you made them feel.