Talking openly and honestly with your kids is one of the most effective ways to support their behavioral health. Whether it’s everyday topics like friends and school, or more serious topics like substance use, anxiety, or depression, it’s never too early to start the conversation. As your kids grow, your conversations may change, but they will always be centered on keeping them happy, healthy, and safe. Keep your conversations relaxed, friendly, nonjudgmental, and genuine. And most importantly, be a good listener.

What do I say?

There are many teachable moments, or "everyday" opportunities that can help continue these conversations. Whether your kids are two or twenty, these sample scenarios can provide some ideas on how address different topics when they arise.


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