Are You “Hip” To Teen Pop Culture?

If you have pre-teens or teens in your house, you may find yourself wondering what they are saying. Remember back to when you were a teen and you might have thought something was pretty great and used the terms “the bomb” or “stylin’”? Today your teen might use the term “sick”, “ill” or “fly,” to mean much of the same.

In their attempt to be different from their parents and become independent, teens have always come up with new slang terms or recycled old ones. You might catch on to some of the terms and your teen may even want you to know some, but would you know if your teen was talking about a cute guy or gal or the newest way to party with alcohol or drugs? At the website Parents: The Antidrug you can take a quiz to help you recognize some of these new phrases. Terms like “ROTFL” and “poke” can be harmless, but others like “space cakes” and “crunk” are talking about drugs and ways to party. Do you know what these terms mean? Go to http://www.theantidrug.com/resources/pdfs/teens-technology-quiz.pdf to take the quiz. Have your teen take the quiz too and have a discussion about the terms they know and what other terms teens are using today. Keep the conversation open and listen to what your teen is saying. Staying on top of the latest alcohol research and information will help you to know what to watch for and how to help your teen avoid the pressure to use alcohol. Of course http://www.parentslead.org/ is a great resource for this information.

We would love to hear your ideas. Share how you did on the quiz and the results of your conversation with your son or daughter.

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“Big Bowl Vote 2012” Asks For Teens Opinions

Super Bowl Sunday is just around the corner. Do you know that if your youth will be watching the game they will help make up about 18% of the audience that is under 21? It is a fact that many of the advertisements during this game will be for alcohol.

To help learn how teens perceive the commercials during the game The Drug-Free Action Alliance will once again be conducting its Big Bowl Vote on Monday after the Super Bowl. This survey asks students which ad was their favorite and which brands advertised where the most memorable. Last year 35,000 middle and high school students surveyed in the Drug-Free Action Alliance Big Bowl Vote named alcohol ads as the second most remembered ads aired during the game.

If your children are watching the game this year, find out what your they liked best and what stands out in their memory. Then help them develop media literacy, or skills that help students learn to analyze and evaluate media. The Drug-Free Action Alliance suggests these questions to get the conversation going:

What is this ad trying to sell you?
Is this product healthy for you?
How is this ad trying to get you to purchase their product?
How do you feel about the product now?

So on Sunday get out some chips and dip and sit down with your family to watch the game (or just the commercials!) Then survey your family to see what ads made the greatest impression. On Wednesday, February 8, 2012, go to www.DrugFreeActionAlliance.org and read the press release with the results from the survey and compare to your families thoughts.

What are you doing to help your children develop media literacy skills and stay alcohol free? Post your ideas here to share with other parents.

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Alcopops Dangerous to Teens

Beverage manufactures of hard liquor have found a way to enter the beer market with drinks called alcopops. These drinks are a combination of distilled spirits and beer. Marketing that targets young audiences, its sweet lemonade or soda like flavor, and youthful fun packaging are attracting our teens. The sweet flavor of these drinks works to mask the bitter alcohol flavor, which makes them easier to drink and more attractive to underage drinkers.
Manufactures of these drinks have convinced regulators to consider these beverages in the “beer” category resulting in the ability to market this product more easily to our youth. This beer like status enables manufactures to promote alcopop type drinks during many prime time television shows that teens watch. Advertisements that promote these drinks as youthful and hip appeal to teens, especially girls. Teen girls report drinking alcopops more often than boys.
Another concern is that alcopops are generally regarded as having less alcohol content than most beers which is not true. Containing just as much alcohol as a beer or a mixed drink, alcopops are dangerous for our youth. The sweet flavor and the fact that they do not taste like alcohol is a reason most teens say they drink them. This easy to consume beverage can lead to teens drinking too much and be a gateway to other forms of alcohol.
As a parent, you need to know that alcopops are just as dangerous as any another alcoholic beverage. Teens attraction to these drinks, make them maybe even more dangerous. Talk to your teen about the dangers of alcopops and help them look more critically at advertisements. If you are concerned that your teen may have already been exposed to these drinks, go to http://www.parentslead.org/is-my-son-or-daughter-using.php for help on how to address the problem.

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Don’t Stop Talking!

As teens and young adults gain more independence our conversations about alcohol use and its consequences need to continue. Of course we need to continue to stress that we have a no tolerance policy but that should only be where the conversation starts. Here are some topics that you may want to discuss with your adolescent or college age student.
Technology is powerful. An innocent post or text inviting a couple friends over when you are gone can easily become an open invitation to many other “friends” in a very short time. Having many conversations about technology and the fact that once you put something out there it cannot be taken back and you have lost the power to control where it goes.
Someone else’s decisions may affect you. If your teen is with a friend that is drinking, your teen could still get in trouble for minor in possession, be talked into something he or she really had no intention of doing, or could quickly lose control of a situation. Your son or daughter could probably easily tell one friend who comes to your home with alcohol that it is not allowed, but how would your son or daughter handle a group of friends showing up with alcohol? A group could be much more intimidating and having a plan that you and your adolescent agree on could be crucial.
More information on how to talk to your teen can be found at http://www.parentslead.org/grade1012_communicating.php

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Podcast Provides Support to Parents

Cigna and The Partnership at Drugfree.org, presented a podcast that provides support and help to parents who want to keep their children alcohol and drug free. Ameila Arria, PhD, Senior Scientist and adolescent and young-adult specialist at the Treatment Research Institute, and Director of the Center on Young Adult Health and Development at the University of Maryland has a conversation with a parent, Sandra Carcamo, about strategies that can help keep young kids from trying and developing problems with alcohol. Arria’s information is based on research and ties in nicely with practical advice from Carcamo. Research suggests that there is no guarantee that by using the methods suggested youth will not participate in risky behaviors but there is a definite relationship with fewer problems. Environmental and genetic factors are discussed as a large contributor to whether or not youth use. The program stresses a warm parental relationship that is built through respect and trust beginning when children are young, clear-cut boundaries, unmistakable disapproval of alcohol use by youth, teamed with supervision and monitoring are some of the best defenses.

Listen to this recorded podcast in its entirety at http://www.drugfree.org/newsroom/podcast-helping-your-kids-avoid-drugs-and-alcohol-2?utm_source=Join+Together+Daily&utm_campaign=3f049a0135-JT_Daily_News_Prescription_Drug&utm_medium=email.

Share your ideas here on how you keep the conversation going with your youth and parenting techniques that work for you. And remember you can always check out the Parents LEAD http://www.parentslead.org/ page to find more ideas on how to talk to your children.

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Alcohol Brands Advertised Through Popular Music

University of Pittsburgh researches found in a recent study that teens may be exposed to alcohol advertisements through popular music. The average teen listens to 2.5 hours of music a day and each hour has about 3.4 references to alcohol. It is known that predictors of underage alcohol use are brand recognition and positive alcohol references. About 20% of songs contained a reference to alcohol and of those references one-fourth mentioned specific brands. These brands were commonly associated with lifestyles that promote wealth, partying, violence and degrading sexual activity. Advertisers know that when their brands are associated with positive feelings and activities, sales are affected. Underage drinkers, especially females, named as their favorite drinks those promoted in popular songs. Patron (tequila), Grey Goose (vodka) and Hennessy (cognac) were the distilled spirits most referenced in songs.

How will you talk to your teen about the messages they are receiving through the music they listen to? Our Parents lead pages http://www.parentslead.org/index.php have great tips for talking to your youth at all ages and MADD (Mothers Against Drunk Driving) http://www.madd.org/assets/docs/parents_daily_tips_web.pdf has great conversation tips too.

Resource: Primack, B.A., Nuzzo, E., Rice, K.R., and Sargent, J.D. (2011). Alcohol brand appearances US popular in music. Addiction, DOI: 10.1111/j.1360-0443.2011.03649.x

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Parents’ choices to drive under the influence of drugs and alcohol have teens more likely to drive under the influence

Parents who drink and drive have children who are more likely to have the same behavior reports a recent study by the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration. The study shows that teens are more likely to drive under the influence if they see their parents participating in the same behavior than if their parents do not drink and drive. Last year 11.5 % of youth ages 16 – 17 years drove under the influence. Both mothers and fathers had an impact on teen’s decisions to drive under the influence, but fathers who modeled this behavior had teens that had a greater incident of replicating these actions.

“Parents play a key role in preventing drunk and drugged driving, beginning with setting a good example,” said SAMHSA Administrator Pam Hyde. “Parents who drink, or drug, and drive not only put their lives and the lives of others at immediate risk, but increase the likelihood that their children will follow down this destructive path.”

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Supervised Teen Drinking Found to Produce Negative Consequences

The latest research on teen drinking shows an increase in use and harmful consequences when teens are allowed to drink while supervised at home. Beliefs that the harm of alcohol consumption can be reduced by allowing teens to drink at home instead of out where they might drive or participate in other risky behaviors are defiantly disputed by this current study. Teens were followed for two years and those that were allowed to drink with parental supervision drank more and had more harmful consequence from drinking in both the US where it is not a legal practice and in Australia where this is a legal practice. So talking to your teen and letting them know that you have a no tolerance policy for underage drinking is gaining more and more evidence that it is the best route for helping our youth stay alcohol free.

See our Parents LEAD topic on ND Laws http://www.parentslead.org/ND-laws.php to understand the consequences to parents for providing alcohol to anyone under the age of 21.

What are your thoughts on parents allowing kids to drink at home? Share your thought here!

Resource: McMorris BJ, Catalano RF, Kim MJ, Toumbourou JW, Hemphill SA. (2011). Influence of family factors and supervised alcohol use on adolescent alcohol use and harms: similarities between youth in different alcohol policy contexts. Journal of Studies on Alcohol and Drugs. 72(3):418-28.

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Nation’s former drug czar says parental expectations help kids steer clear of drugs, alcohol

Retired Gen. Barry McCaffrey, former director of the White House Office on Drug Control Policy, said he made a concerted effort as drug czar to hold a mirror up to the nation to further the understanding of face of addiction, particularly where the nation’s youths were concerned.

The good news is that surveys say three out of four high school students have not consumed alcohol or taken drugs in the past month. Prevention efforts must be targeted toward them, McCaffrey said.

The top reason youths do not use drugs is that their parents have established clear expectations about drug and alcohol use, which a youth interprets as “I don’t want my mother ashamed of me. I don’t know what my father will do to me.”

Young people who participate in supervised, structured organizations such as sports teams or school clubs have yet another reason to steer clear of drugs and alcohol. When pressured by peers, such youth have a built-in excuse to say no, “‘Yeah, I’m tempted but I’m not letting my team down,’” McCaffrey said.

Parents and trusted adults must also provide information to young people that is age appropriate and scientifically sound, he said.

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Welcome to the Parents LEAD Blog!

Welcome to Parents LEAD!  We are excited to be offering support to parents across North Dakota as they talk to their children about underage drinking.  It is often said that parenting is the hardest job we will have, but it is certainly the most rewarding. It is not a “job” that any of us can do alone.  Parents LEAD is one place where you can go for information and support and it is our hope that you find the website, resources, and blog useful as you navigate raising your children.

About once a week we will post a question, resource, etc. for you to comment on.  We would like to start this week by asking you:

“At what age should parents start to talk to their children about underage drinking?’’

We would love to hear your thoughts…

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